How To Stop Outsourcing Your Peace And Build An Inner Strength That Feels Like Home
Dear Sensitive Soul,
Do you care deeply about things?
Do you think and overthink... a lot?
Do you have frequent moments of paralysis where your mind is desperately spinning and calculating?
Do you wish you had more feelings of control, instead of always feeling at the mercy of others and circumstances?
I used to feel this way too. I used to feel always on edge and unsettled. It showed up in daily living and trying to be productive... and it showed up a lot in relationships. I really cared about how things felt... so I'd work so hard to take care of everyone. It mattered to me that others were ok and that everything felt good around me.
But secretly, here's what was happening... all my own feelings of being ok were hinged on everything outside of me. I needed to give so much so I could fix it all. I needed them to feel good so I could feel good. Others were my drug, and I was deep in the never-ending trap of outsourcing my peace.
The problem was, this kind of living looked great to everyone else. It looked good and kind and service-oriented. But inside, my overwhelm felt like it was going to take me down. Anxiety was growing in the shadows and I was starting to feel more and more fragile.
It turns out, you can never do enough, work hard enough, or give enough to make your heart and mind feel rest. You can only get that by going inward.
The inner world is like a house. We were gifted it to steward well, and turn into a home. One that's warm, rich, and stands on its own. Only by doing that are we ever going to show up for others in a way that's healthy, honest, and whole.
The beauty of renovating your inner home, is that all the things you were trying to find outside of yourself become within reach... because they were right inside all along.
You feel peace
You rediscover joy
You find security
You come to rest in gentle strength
It all starts with diving into the new territory inside.
That's what this course is for. It's the guidance you need to know what to look for, what to avoid, and how to actually start cultivating an inner world that feels like home.
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This space is where you reclaim your birthright
We got it all wrong. You were never merely a vessel of giving.
You were made for POWER.
You were made for AUTHORITY.
You were made for INTERNAL BIGNESS.
Hi, I'm Allison
Your guide and fellow adventurer through the fantastic world of self-ownership.
Years of life-coaching the hearts and minds of clients led to the creation of Coming Home. I'm thrilled to offer the mapping system for your sensitive soul's journey.
❤️ from clients
The biggest lesson I've learned is how much power I have.
- Susan
Allison brought my brain and body back online.
- Georgia
I'm a visual learner and have struggled to integrate thought work with my big, constant feelings. What Allison has given me through this course is so simple, yet so profound. I get it now. I get what's going on inside and how to be the 'captain of my ship.' I know how to be in control, which has given me endless access to autonomy and rest in my body.
- Cora
Allison is a Mindset Coach and treasure. She's distilled how to interact with the thoughts that come into our heads via a set of principles displayed in short talks and illustrated with simple white board drawings. These are every bit as simple and compelling as the principles I've used to order our home and to make our meals seem like bistro fare. I've spent about 12 weeks in this course of hers. Now I'm way more calmly boundaried and clear about what is true and helpful for me and what I can gently ignore ... This course has absolutely been step-by-step right for me.
- Mary Ellen
Each and every time I work with Allison I have a shift of perspective that puts what I am going through in a completely different light. Allison has the ability to say something that gives me multiple "aha" moments. She has taught me how to become comfortable being uncomfortable, which allows me to grow. She's taught me how to question the things I say to myself. It felt foreign at first but over time it comes naturally. Without that skill I wouldn't be able to lead a more positive and fulfilling life. Everything about my life has changed. I am not only more confident in myself and my decisions but I have a loving relationship with myself now. I trust myself, and because of that things seem to fall into place more easily. Before I forced everything in life and questioned every step I took but with Allison's help I was able to identify why I did that and how to shift my thoughts so that I am now able to trust myself and allow what I desire to come to me."
- Jen
Since working with Allison, I am better respecting the boundaries of others-and myself. I am much more patient with and appreciative of my 91 year old mother and her own challenges with judging and criticizing. My husband and I are communicating better-and I feel more patient and loving with him at the same time I am speaking my truth and my heart more clearly. My relationship with my adult daughter has moved to a different level. I am more appreciative of what emotions are and how they enhance my life rather than being held captive by them. I am much more patient with myself and with the ones closest to me. My day-to-day has become more a source of joy than an occasion of self-criticism. Self-safety has made me calmer and more peaceful-and it also helps me understand that everyone is responsible for their own happiness.
- Liz
My mindset has improved tremendously since working with Allison. I have less anxiety and view life with more curiosity than hesitation! I trust myself more and believe I can do anything in time! I see myself more as others do also. I am much more in tune with my emotions and recognize ways to manage them better. I have allowed myself to me more vulnerable which has improved my relationships greatly. Seems quite a bit easier to work towards my goals. I view them as attainable which eliminates a lot of struggles I used to deal with. I believe in myself so much more and reignite my worth and abilities.
- Gina
Before I found Allison, I didn't know how unsupported I felt. Once meeting her and talking with her I felt really seen, for probably the first time in my life. There's something so beautiful about the energy space that she holds. But it's not enabling. She never keeps you in your victimhood. She encourages you to hold all the feelings AND other ways of seeing. Allison brings the new perspectives from a deep space of peace and grounding. If you want to be truly seen and feel empowered from a deep place; If you want to stop fighting with yourself and feeling like you have to get shit right all the time and always power on, she's your woman.
- Vera